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How Can I Help?
Every text, every voicemail, every card that said “let me know what you need” went unanswered. Not because I wasn’t grateful. Because I was too exhausted to tell someone how to help me. This post is for everyone who wants to show up for someone with a cancer diagnosis but doesn’t know where to start. Stop asking. Start doing.
Scared Shitless and Suited Up: My First Day of Chemo
Nobody tells you what it actually feels like to walk into your first chemotherapy appointment. The brave face. The crew you brought because your brain checks out when the doctors start talking. The bestie introducing herself to every stranger in the waiting room. The Benadryl that knocked you out cold. And the week that followed where Thanksgiving came and went and you barely left the bed. This is what day one actually looked like.
The Exhale: Learning to Trust God in the Waiting
The appointment was scheduled. The conflict was real. And the anxiety? It showed up right on time. What they don't always tell you about life after a cancer diagnosis is that the fear doesn't clock out once treatment begins. It follows you into waiting rooms, scheduling conflicts, and the quiet moments when a technician walks back through that door. This is what the faith walk actually looks like beyond the diagnosis.